The Danger of Comparison

The Apostle Paul warns in 2 Corinthians 10:12:

"For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise." (KJV)

This verse highlights the folly of measuring ourselves against others instead of seeking God's standard. Comparison leads to pride, envy, and division, all of which hinder spiritual growth.

The Scriptures make it clear that true spiritual authority is not about eloquence but about demonstrating God's power, which reveals His nature and character. God's power is not just about miracles but also about displaying His love, justice, mercy, and righteousness in our lives. As the Lord declares in Jeremiah 9:24: "But let him that glorieth glory in this, that he understandeth and knoweth me, that I am the Lord which exercise lovingkindness, judgment, and righteousness, in the earth: for in these things I delight, saith the Lord." This verse reinforces that God's power is demonstrated not only through supernatural acts but also through His inherent righteousness and just nature.

"For the kingdom of God is not in word, but in power." (1 Corinthians 4:20). As Paul also states, "And my speech and my preaching was not with enticing words of man's wisdom, but in demonstration of the Spirit and of power." (1 Corinthians 2:4)

Many in the body of Christ fall into the trap of self-exaltation. They begin to see themselves as superior to others, believing their spiritual insights or experiences make them better. This pride is subtle but dangerous. Jesus Himself warned against it, saying:

"For whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted." (Luke 14:11)

Pride leads to a stunted spiritual walk. As soon as someone starts comparing themselves to others, believing they have "arrived," their growth is hindered.

The Scriptures clearly address the root causes of discord among believers:

"For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work." (James 3:16)

People desire relevance, honor, and recognition. They want to be spoken to in a certain way, treated with respect, and esteemed above their peers. However, Jesus taught a different approach:

"But he who is greatest among you shall be your servant." (Matthew 23:11) Just as a servant endures insults and hardship, Jesus took on suffering, scorn, and rejection, showing us what it truly means to be a servant of all. He bore insults and hatred without retaliation, embodying the humility and endurance expected of those who follow Him.

Seeking recognition from others is a sign of the flesh. The moment we compare ourselves to others, seeking validation, we fall into the trap of pride and self-seeking behavior.

God calls us to have a heart of peace and not evil, as seen in Jeremiah 29:11:

"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end." (KJV)

The way we view others should reflect how God views us—with love, grace, and humility. Paul instructs us:

"Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves." (Philippians 2:3)

Instead of elevating ourselves, we build others up and encourage them in their walk with God.

The true measure of a believer is not external recognition but obedience to God's Word. As James writes:

"But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves." (James 1:22)

Many claim knowledge of the Scriptures but do not live them out. Obedience is the true test of our faith. Jesus Himself emphasized this:

"If you love Me, keep My commandments." (John 14:15)

Self-exaltation leads to destruction, but humility leads to God's exaltation:

"Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall." (Proverbs 16:18)

When we focus solely on Jesus, He lifts us up. We must resist the urge to seek validation from others:

"Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time." (1 Peter 5:6)

When we seek recognition, we fall into self-seeking motives. However, God exalts those who are truly humble and obedient.

One of the greatest traps is expecting recognition and compliments from others. A believer should be content regardless of external validation:

"Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content." (Philippians 4:11)

Instead of seeking compliments, we should focus on encouraging others. However, our encouragement should not be transactional—if we compliment others only to receive the same in return, we have missed the point of contentment.

Jesus calls us to a higher standard:

"Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your bosom." (Luke 6:38)

Our giving, whether in words or actions, should be selfless.

Comparison, pride, and self-seeking behavior lead to spiritual stagnation. Instead, we are called to humility, obedience, and genuine love for others. God alone is our measure, and He alone exalts those who walk in humility and obedience. Let us set our eyes on Jesus and trust Him to lift us in His perfect time.